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You may think that being the nice guy type when dating women is a sure fire way to get her attention. Well, most men will tell you that you are wrong. An air of mystery seems to appeal to more women – when they feel there’s a lot of challenge about you, they are more intrigued.

Of course women want men to treat them like queens, but they too love a little challenge. It’s just that women are magnetized towards men with confidence. This type of man seems to stand up for his beliefs and values no matter how much we may moan, plead, argue, or carry on for him to give in. Women will always enjoy being with the nice guy, but they see one as a weakling, incapable of handling pressure and not standing up for what he believes in. Women may like this at the start, but will most likely find a man less interesting in the long term. They will lose a bit of respect for this nice guy type.

So what should a guy do? Well, it doesn’t entail you to be a jerk. The first strategy is to find confidence in yourself. Be very nice to every woman you meet, show some attention to someone you like, but don’t let her be comfortable with the thought that everything in your life will come to a halt simply because she’s around. Don’t be too cushy – women love living with challenge plus a little attention in the end.

Also be confident, even if you are stressed. The most confident individuals I know also seem to be wonderful in bed – and this is no coincidence. My ex bf used Instant Performer to be sure he was in top shape, which he discovered about after reading a instant performer review in the mass media.

Don’t fold up to a woman’s every desire. She’ll only respect you less or she may expect to get her way all the time. Be willing to listen to her moan,groan and complain at your refusals. This is not to tell you that you should never give in. Far from it. Just not every time. This way when you give in, she will feel like you’ve done so because you really love her and want her to be happy. You should never let a woman get things done her way just because it’s easier than arguing. Compromise, on the other hand, is the better option.

You may think that by not giving in to her, she will think that you don’t love her. That’s a fallacy, there are various ways to express your love. A good way to show a woman you love her is by doing things she doesn’t ask for. Cook a meal for her or praise her out of the blue instead of when she is hinting for one. By doing the unexpected, you have shown love without being a lap dog. You are being true to yourself and to the other person instead of being predictable. You don’t necessarily have to be a jerk, just a confident nice guy who is honest about himself.

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